Hi Susan,
The other day I told Kathy that your training has “changed my life.” So this is just a follow up to explain what I meant.
When we retired in 2004 and moved from Hawaii to California, one of the key reasons was that we wanted to spend more time with horseback riding. After arriving here, we spent several years, a good deal of effort and quite a bit of money on various horse trainers. Some of the results were okay, but I felt like I was “skimming the surface”—sort of going through the motions without understanding why I was doing certain things.
It wasn’t until we began working with you that pieces started to fall into place. The notion of “the horse you lead is the horse you ride” began to clarify for me why I needed to do certain things with our horses. Your training has taught me how to observe what the horse is doing and understand how to intervene and shape the horse’s behavior. Although I still have lots of learning to do, I’ve gained much more confidence with the horses. This has helped me see that the horses have begun to change as I have begun to change. I guess my improving skills and confidence have helped them see me as a better leader, which in turn makes them better horses. So….the degree to which we lead our horses effectively, we’ll ride them effectively as well, right? Since Kathy and I have committed so much to this aspect of our retired lives, I really feel like my life, in this regard, has been changed.
Thanks for that Susan! Right on!
– Kehele Kukea